September 9, 2018

Playing Catch Up

So, it's been almost 2 months since my last post here on my blog. I don't know where the time went but I'm sorry for not writing and posting here more. I really cant explain myself or my absence. So, lets catch up a lil, heres my last 2 months:

In 2 months I completed an internship in Chicago, moved twice, started my senior year, celebrated my 21st birthday, helped my best friend with a breakup, decorated a whole apartment, finished my tattoo, and so many other things I'm probably forgetting. 

I'm finally settled in my new apartment (apartment tour to come soon) in East Lansing. Last year I had a 4 bedroom townhome and now its just me, Brooke, and my cat. 

I fully expected Chicago to be all inspiring and cause me to post on my blog more, start vlogging, and take amazing pics for the gram but I was kinda mistaken. Don't get me wrong, Chicago was wonderful, I learned so much at my internship but the city was not what everyone cracked it up to be. I didn't feel inspired, maybe its because it was a temporary home and I couldn't fully settle in. 

But, now that I'm back and surrounded by my friends and people that bring out my creativity, I'm ready to rock and roll again. 

Stay tuned, I promise I won't let another 2 months go by this time.

June 21, 2018

My Thoughts on Tattoos

(pic by Nat)

As some of you may know, I have a few tattoos. If you didn't know I talk you through what I have and where in this recent blog post. Within this post I mentioned that I am starting the process of getting a sleeve this summer and boy did I receive some kick back about it. So, the purpose of this post is hopefully let you see my perspective on tattoos. But most importantly my tips how to overcome peoples judgement around your self expression, wether that be piercings, tattoos, hair color, etc. So grab some popcorn and lets get to talking. 

Why get a tattoo? Why I got my tattoos?
For me, I grew up in a household where both of my parents have one tattoo each. That did not shape my opinion or drive me to get one. Neither did the fad of being tattooed when you turn 18. I waited until I had a steady idea for 2 years to finally go under the gun and get it done. All my friends and classmates had tattoos and yes, at times I did feel left out but I waited until I loved my idea for 2 years before permanently putting it on my body at the age of 19 almost 20. 

Tattooing is a form of art.
When choosing my artists I put a lot of research and thought into who's going to be tattooing me. My first tattoos (my swallows) were done by Danny Reed out of Hot Stuff Tattoo in Asheville. I had my appointment booked months in advance and I drove over 8 hours round trip to see him; he was well worth it. 

I find tattoos the most expressive form of art for not only the artist but the person who wears them on their skin. Any other form of art such as a painting or statue can in a sense be destroyed but a well done tattoo is a form of art that is permanent. Yes, tattoos be removed but that is beside the point. 

Some, if not most tattoos do have a meaning to the person who wears them but that isn't a reason to have one. I saw this quote once and it stuck, "If my body is a temple, why not decorate the walls?" I don't know who said it but I stand behind it. If you have a deep connection with a verse, quote, animal, symbol,  or anything else then there is no reason for you not to commemorate that on your body. If there is a flower that you love but has no relevance or meaning other than you find it beautiful why not have that beauty upon your skin?

I think you get the point and I've stated why I think tattooing is an art form.

There are always going to be people trying to change you, but here is what I tell them:

  • First and foremost, you are the one who will have this tattoo on you, not them and therefore they really don't have grounds to stand on (unless you're under 18 and need their signature to get the tattoo and in that case I really don't know how to help you). 
  • If a job you want won't hire you because of your tattoos, why do you want to work under someone who won't let you express yourself? Your resume/portfolio should speak for itself, not your tattoos. 
  • There are worse things you can be doing instead of getting a tattoo, just saying.
  • It is a way to express yourself and a conversation starter. You never really know what you'll learn or who you'll meet because of your tattoos and the conversations they can start.
  • Tattoos to some people mean you are immature, I completely disagree. Tattoos are at the pinnacle of dedication to something, you seriously have this on your skin forever, what shows dedication to something more than that? If anything employers should consider that as a positive. 

So, if you made it this far I applaud you. I appreciate you for letting me rant and let out pent up feelings. I am starting my sleeve with a floral piece on July 12 with Kelsey Moore out of Awaken Tattoo & Gallery in Chicago and I couldn't be more excited. All in all, there will always be people who judge you, or people who want to change you but you only live once as cliche as that is. Get that tattoo, dye your hair a crazy color, get that piercing, do what makes you happy because that is what truly matters.

If you are looking for some tattoo inspiration or to get a closer look at my style of tattoos I gravitate towards take a look at my Pinterest board.

June 10, 2018

3 Ways: How To Style a Wrap Dress

Upon moving to Chicago I immediately went on a hunt for local boutiques. After stumbling upon Tribeca Boutique  I knew I had to reach out. They were gracious enough to let me style this amazing wrap dress for you guys. Versus showing you my normal outfit posts I decided to amp it up a notch and give you 3 different ways you can style and wear your wrap dresses.


For this look I wanted something I could throw on to run errands. I think the play on patterns with the stripes and floral is funky and I dig it. You can totally recreate this look with a graphic or basic tee, a pair of jean shorts, and sandals. Super easy yet still eye catching and plays on the kimono trend thats all over.

Shop the Look: 
Dress   Shorts    Tee   Boots

Beachin' It: 

I love finding how to use pieces in an unconventional way. So, instead of your large oversized tee you would normally toss on to head to the pool or beach take it up a notch, turn some heads and wear your dress as your cover up. 

Shop the Look: 
Dress   Suit  Bag

Date Night: 

This is pretty self explanatory. For this look I wore the dress how it was meant to be worn. I styled it with this box bag I am obsessed with and this amazing jade-esque necklace both from Tribeca Boutique (sorry I don't have links for you guys but shoot them a DM on instagram and see if they have them in stock!)

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Thanks again to Tribeca Boutique for this amazing dress, bag, and necklace. Check out their insta their stuff is so cute and who doesn't love supporting local businesses? Let me know your fav look!    

June 2, 2018

May Favorites

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Tee    Pants (similar)    Shoes   Belt      Bag (similar)   Hat

Hey you guys! Long time no talk... I apologize I know I promised to post 1 blog post a week and I fell behind like a full month almost. Here's a little life recap and why I have MIA:

I MOVED TO CHICAGO! (for the summer) I have been dealing with moving logistics ranging from moving my furniture to a storage until and out of my current apartment in East Lansing to packing up a uHaul and driving 5 hours to my new little studio in Chicago that I share with my honey and kitten. This morning I'm writing from my temporary home and sipping some coffee, god bless the Keurig.

So, I apologize again for being so absent in the last few weeks but I'm back and in a new city that is inspiring me like crazy. If you don't follow me on Instagram you're gonna miss out on some stuff, follow me here.

Here is what I loved in May:

Target Sandals: Recently target did a 40% off sandals sale and I new that was my chance to stock up. I picked these 3. Something a little dressy (red), something a little more casual (woven tan) and something to kick on with leggings and a t-shirt (furry). I also picked up these.

Chloe Dupe: This purse has been in my cart for months and I finally jumped on it when it went on sale. I was skeptical to order from Shein to say the lease but this bag had great reviews. Not to mention its a Chloe dupe... It has backpack straps and a normal strap. I can fit everything from my vlog camera to my wallet in there and its great quality for $12.

Canon EOS M100: I recently bought this bad boy to start vlogging since my life may be kind of interning in Chicago this summer so stay on the look out for those coming soon!

Target Pillow: I originally saw this on Aspyn Ovard's story when she went to Target and I immediately went to grab it. I looks like it came from Anthropology and for the price I know I couldn't not have it.

Graphic Tees: This one specifically is from Urban outfitters, see how I styled it here. I have been loving these just to toss on with a fun shoe, jean jacket and shorts and a statement back. Cant have enough tees.

As always here is what music I had on repeat during May! Give it a listen if ya want!

What were you obsessed with in May? Let a sista know! 

May 10, 2018

10 Facts About Me

Recently I have had a bunch of new followers on the gram as well as some new people messaging me about my blog so I figured I would do a little introduction of myself and my quirks.

I'm Taylor, a newby blogger still working out the kinks. I grew up in NC and have always read blogs, I'm talking since middle school. I moved to Michigan to attend Michigan State University and recently started my blog last November. Holy hell have I grown since then, not only online but into myself. Scrolling through my blog posts and pictures makes me cringe but it's a process and I'm so grateful for those of you who have dealt with my craziness through this whole process.

So, I'll stop blabbing... Here are 10 things you may or may not know about me:

1. I have 4 tattoos: My first of which my friend did with a sewing needle (they're normally called prison tattoos or stick and poke) on our senior prom night. Cliche right. It is on the bottom of my left foot and its a smiley face. Funny thing is they told me it would wear off after like 2 years max but its been almost 5 and that baby isn't going anywhere. I also have 2 swallows (as in the bird) on each arm right above the back of my elbow. I had these done in Asheville, NC when I was 19 and I absolutely love them. The reason why I chose swallows is because no matter how far they go, they always find their way back home. And my last tattoo I got last year on the side of my middle finger that reads "go". I use this as a reminder that life doesn't always have to be so schedule oriented and planned and that sometimes the best experiences and memories happen if you just "go".

2. I am terrified of bees:  Nothing in this world scares me like a bee or wasp does. There is something about the sound that makes me run. I totaled my first car because there was a bee inside of it thats how petrified I am of them.

3. I changed my major: I went into college thinking I wanted to go to med school. Hell was I wrong about that. I recently changed my major to Creative Advertising with a concentration on copywriting. Loving it so far and I got an internship with little to no experience.

4. I like drinking warm water when I eat ice-cream:   This probably sounds so weird, because it is. I'm not a fan of anything cold when it comes to food, I hate ice water. So, when I eat ice-cream I drink warm water because the sensation is super cool and I hate brain freezes.

5. I work 3 jobs:  I go to school full time like any other student but I also work 3 jobs. I am a student ambassador for Cengage textbooks, I am a full time nanny, and I work at my apartment complex. Im never not working and when I'm not clocked in at a job I am working on my blog.

6. Growing up I had a horse: I was never coordinated enough for soccer, tennis, basketball, volleyball, or any sport really for that matter. I lived the dream that every little girl wants of owning their own horse. I competed/rode horses for what is probably like 8 years of my life but had to give it up in high school. It was either owning a horse or a car and I couldn't drive my horse to school so we know what happened there.

7. Im lactose intolerant: but I'll be damned if I'm ever going to give up coffee, pizza, ice-cream, any of the good things in life.

8. I'm as blind as a bat: Truly I cannot see anything without my contacts or glasses. I love being grandma when I'm 20. Yes I knit, yes I'm blind, and yes I have a cat.

9. I have 10 piercings: This one sounds intense but it really isn't. I never take them out and they're a part of who I am and my style. I have 3 holes on each lobe, a cartilage on my right ear as well as a rook and conch piercing. On my left I have my daith pierced, which let me tell you was the worst pain of my life...

10. I eventually want a full sleeve: I'm slowly beginning this process this summer while living in Chicago and I'm so freaking excited! More to come, not spoiling that secret until its done.

I hope you enjoyed reading about how weird I am and what makes me, well ya know, me? What are your quirks? No matter how put together I may look on social media I am a true dork and a weird one at that. No one is as put together as they seem online. We're all human.

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May 6, 2018

Wild Thing

When it comes to spring and summer looking cute really isn't my strong suit. I live for winter and fall with boots and chunky kits. I'm forcing that to change this year. No gym clothes no matter how hot it is outside.

When I was at Nordstrom Rack recently I HAD to purchase this Free People romper. Its truly like pajamas in the best way possible and is so freaking versatile I'm in love.

So, to get me out of my summer lack of style rut that I've always done I'm stock piling rompers, jumpsuits, 2 piece sets and all the dresses. There just easy breathable pieces that can be styled in a ton of ways.

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 What're your summer style go to pieces? I need help! 

April 30, 2018

April Favorites

 Where on Earth did April go? I swear we were all complaining that January lasted 12 years but now I blinked and April is over.

Just like may you have a new playlist to listen to of all my April jams as well as a round up of products, things, a bag, skincare, and a coffee I've been loving lately.

Here's what I loved in April:

My new Starbucks go to: I tend to feel like crap after drinking Starbucks drinks with a ton of artificial flavoring and syrups. So,  my new order is all natural. If you want to give it a try its a grande latte with 4 honey packets and cinnamon steamed in. So good!

Origins Drink Up Overnight Mask: I purchased this during the Sephora VIB sale and am obsessed. My skin isn't necessarily dry but I love waking up and it being plump and moisturized. Also, this smells like mangos.

Skinny Sunnies: These especially have been a super fun accessory to toss on to amp up a basic outfit. Too bad this exact pair is sold out until around June but there are so many out there

Caudalie Vinoperfect Radiance Serum: This serum is pricy but so worth it. Apparently the Sephora website says it claims to be 62 times more effective than vitamin C serums. Where do they even get that number, that is so specific..? But per the website its a "highly concentrated, natural, oil free serum that fights dark spots, evens skin tone and boosts radiance. I have my roommate hooked its that good. Definitely worth the splurge

Ouai Dry Texture Foam: I wish I had this when I wrote my last blog post on my go to texturizing products . It's my new found love. Not only does it smell amazing but it gives my roots and ends a little bit on oomph. I love it.

Vitamin C Serum: I've used this product for about 2 years now and still love it. It gets forgotten behind my other skin care but this month I've brought it from the back and its back to being a staple in my skin care routine. Im all about that radiance.

Neutrogena Deep Clean Purifying Cleanser & Mask:  This 2 in one is so cheap and so good. When used as a mask its so cooling and purifying. When used as a cleaner its also cooling due to the salicylic acid in it. Deep cleans pores and fights acne while feeling cool on the skin for $7 I'm obsessed.

Mario Badescu Ceramide Eye Gel:  I could sleep for 12 hours and still wake up with dark circles. This product is cooling, hydrating and gentle under the eyes.

My new rings: Recently I "re-designed" my hands. If you know me you know I never take off my rings, I have perpetual tan lines from them. They're a part of my being. So, I needed a little revamp and decided to stop into Mad Eagle in downtown East Lansing to pick up some new babes. I love unique rings and supporting local businesses so of course Mad Eagle was my one stop shop.

Rai Crossbody: Last but certainly not least, my bag from Mahisi... it has not left my hip since they sent it my way. Its a new staple and I have gotten countless compliments on it.

What were you loving in April, let a sista know so I can check them out too!

HERE is April's Spotify playlist!

April 22, 2018

Behind the Name

So, normally when in you are in high school and are assigned a book to read in your AP English class you kind of want to die a little bit. I for sure felt that about Brave New World by Aldous Huxley. I am the type of person that hates the books I am forced to read but love to read when its my choice. So, here I am a junior in high school cursing my teacher under my breath for assigning this dystopian novel hating every second of it.

I really can't explain how the words "scandalously unpunctual" stuck with me as I was reading. Truly the line in the book has nothing what so ever to the meaning it gave me but in the book the line is "These Atlantic services- they're really scandalously unpunctual." Like I said, totally irrelevant. But it stuck, hard.

When launching my blog I tossed around so many ideas but eventually came back to those 2 words that just stuck in my head and truly captured who I am as a person and my style.

If you didn't know me in high school I was scandalous to say the lease. Our school courtyard was made of uneven bricks from at least the 1960s and here I was strutting around in wedges and heels acting like my ankles weren't about to break. I surely was unpunctual too, never going to class although I had only 2 classes a day. And when I wasn't in class I was probably with my best friend Christina  (who also wore wedges to school) getting $1 Arizona green teas and jamming out to Dolce & Gabbana by Riff Raff.

When naming my blog I wanted it to describe not only me but its purpose to the people who would hopefully read a post or 2. All in all, I wanted my blog to inspire you in someway. But hopefully in a way that inspires you to dress and be a little more scandalous and become a hell of a lot more unpunctual.

So, although I probably spark noted the whole book I read enough to find 2 words that have been locked in my head since.

Yep, I'm a nerd. Yep, I named my blog after words in a book. Judge me.

April 12, 2018

My Texture and Volume Must Haves

When it comes to my hair I can't seem to kill it. Many of you would say that its a blessing but truthfully it's not all that its chopped up to be and its a giant pain to get some volume into my hair.

My hair is super thick and heavy, so, even if I try and spray hair spray in it it will eventually fall straight and glossy, which to me is not the look I am trying to achieve. I try and go for a messy, lived in look, kind of like you rode around with your head out the window of a car to be honest.

So, when trying to achieve volume I look for light weight products that won't weight my already heavy hair down while focusing on volume at the roots and texture throughout.

Heres' what I use to do so:

Dry Shampoo: 
When I decide to style my hair I can usually ride it out for 3-4 days with the help from dry shampoo, and it adds a little grit which I'm fond of. After trying probably 15 dry shampoos I've narrowed it down to my 2 favorites that smell amazing, are cost effective and leave no white cast: 
- Not Your Mothers Clean Freak: I have a travel size of this in my backpack and car its that good
-Dove Detox and Purify: This feels refreshing on the scalp and the scent lasts all day

Volume and Texturizers: (definitely not a real word but lets roll with it)
Roots: To give my roots that lift I SWEAR by these 2: 
-R&Co Badlands Dry Shampoo Paste: yep, its a paste, you scoop it out, rub it between your hands and it turns into an oil practically, it dries down and give so much grit and texture I love it, their packaging is amazing and it smells great too. Also, it can work on the ends of your hair too to achieve that beachiness. 
-Purology Pure Volume: again, smells amazing, lifts the roots, and does what it promises
Everywhere else: for overall texture I use: 

Here's a tip: At Ulta, Not Your Mothers brand is almost always BOGO 50% off, if you're in the market and they're not on sale just wait because there already so inexpensive that they become an insane bargain once on sale.

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